Are You Positive?
I’ve come to the conclusion that every day is a downer for people expecting it to be. In other words, if you’re looking for the dark cloud in every silver lining, you’ll probably find it. We’ve heard the old adage about how one sees the cup; half full or half empty. Here’s what the Scripture says in Proverbs 15:15 KJV “For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast.”
The Bible has much to say about having a happy heart and so does medical science. People with a more joyous outlook on life are sick less often and live longer. You may say, “Yeah Chris, easy for you to say, but you don’t know my circumstances.” You’re right, I don’t, but I don’t think they’re going to change before your outlook does either. Which comes first the outlook or the results? I believe you attract what you hope and stay in faith for.
It is easy to be negative about the difficulties we experience in life or become a complainer when things are not exactly what we would like to see; it takes a much stronger individual to stay hopeful and joyful when things are not always going the way we would like. Philippians 4:8 NLT says “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.”
As for me, I know it may be raining and grey outside occasionally, but my response in the midst will reveal how brightly the joy of the Lord shines in my heart. Go ahead and give it a try. For 30 days, when difficulties come or when events take place that are not what you care for, be positive and joyful anyway. See if your relationships, attitude, and over-all quality of life doesn’t improve. I know one thing for sure, if your outlook continually displays the attitude of a Debbie or Donnie Downer, those around you are hoping you will give it a try.
Be blessed and be grateful,